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Overcoming a Fear of the Rain

Wednesday, July 14th, 2010

playing in the rain

My two kids are very much different when it comes to rain, or at least right now. LT is a 5 1/2 boy and Kbop will be 4 in August.  Kbop doesn’t have any fears it seems (and that scares me!)  LT on the other hand, he’s our first child and therefore is the one that we always looked out for during his infant, toddler, preschool and now KDG years. This probably has led him to learn to be cautious and timid when it comes to new things and most recently rain and storms.

He’s always been afraid of thunder and lightning, as most kids are, but ever since the huge wind and rain storm on June 24, 2010 (link to photos on Flickr) he’s been deathly afraid.  We were at the Phillies vs Indians game with my Dad (Papa) and had left just before the storm hit. We were stuck on the Platt Memorial Bridge heading to I-95 when the winds shook the bridge and hail started to come down. We couldn’t see more than 5-10’ on either side of the car. LT was having a crying fit and asking “WHAT IS THAT?” when the hail started to pelt the car.  There wasn’t much I could do since we were on the road and there was really no place to pull over. I did end up moving in between two car seats in the backseat of Papa’s car to sit with LT and hold his head in my arms. It helped calm him somewhat but he was still crying and scared like I had never seen him before, and that scared me (inside).

So I KNOW that this incident has left LT with a serious fright about thunderstorms and wind – oh yeah, he’s never liked wind either!  I think he saw Mommy and Daddy playing around once when he was 3yo that we were blowing away.  How would WE know this would have scarred him!! [Parents: Seriously, don’t pretend to get blown away in the wind! It may lead to anxiety and fear of the wind. It seems to have done that in our situation.]

Ok, so how can I work to fix my son’s fears of the wind, rain, storms, and whatever else he becomes afraid of?  Cuz that is what Daddy’s are supposed to do – we fix things, protect our kids, and make things right. The only thing I could think of was to spend some time outside in the rain, probably by myself at first, and then convince my son to come outside and play with me in the rain. It’s kind of funny because my wife and I have always said, “No, you can’t play outside right now, it’s raining!” or “Hurry up, let’s get inside before it rains!”  Like we are making him think that the rain is a bad thing or something.  So the next time we are both at home I was hoping to Throw A Rain Party – Simple & Fun Rain Play For Kids! (FunTimesGuide.com).

We’ll have to gradually work into a fun time in the rain and recondition our kids so they know they ARE ALLOWED to jump in puddles, get muddy, splash water on us, slide in the mud (i.e, be a kid). Of course, we will all be in VERY OLD clothes before we step out of the house!

So my question…

What you would do in my situation?

How would you help your child overcome the fear of rain and wind?

Do you think going outside can make things worse for him?

(Of course, I’m not taking him outside in a thunderstorm – but some year, he’ll want to sit outside – safely – and watch a huge thunderstorm pass overhead and get sprayed with mist and rain…I loved doing that when I was a teenager – not at 5!)

 

Here are some pretty cool articles about other fun ways to play with your kids in the rain.

How to Play in the Rain

Teaching Kids About Rain & Floods

Should Children Play Out In The Rain?

Fun Ideas For A Kids Rain Party


Isaac Newton and Physics for Kids

Saturday, June 26th, 2010
Isaac Newton and Physics for Kids

Isaac Newton and Physics for Kids from Chicago Review Press

A lot of nonfiction for kids in upper elementary and middle school is what I think of as “book report books.” They’re packed with facts, but not presented in a way that makes them very interesting. They may consist of pages of dense text, sound like they were written for a thesis, not a kids book, or just give the impression that the author wasn’t really interested in the topic.

So when I discovered the Chicago Review Press series of activity books I was ecstatic. They’re full of information, yes, but also cleanly laid out with plenty of photos and images. They’re written with an enthusiasm for the subject that’s catching. And they give readers activity ideas that help them absorb and build on the material they’re reading and learning about.

This year I asked Chicago Review for a review copy of their book Isaac Newton and Physics for Kids. Even though my kids are beyond the target age, I thought it might be a useful reference for our physics homeschool studies this year. (Tip to homeschooling parents: If you want to bone up quickly on a topic, try reading a high-quality middle-grade book. Most times you’ll get all the information you need to get started, without overwhelming amounts of detail.) What I found was an excellent biography on Newton that touched on his physics discoveries but didn’t really focus on them. Nonetheless, it is an excellent book for those who want to read about this eccentric and brilliant thinker.

Newton’s interests, of course, went far beyond the Laws of Motion. He started as a farmer’s son but his academic abilities landed him at Cambridge. There he developed calculus (for which generations of high school students have cursed him ever since). As a young professor, he began to study how light travels, and refined the telescope. And of course he also famously described the true nature of gravity. But he also secretly dabbled in alchemy, and worried deeply about religious matters.  Isaac Newton and Physics for Kids puts Newton’s life story into context, describing the social and scientific environment in which he developed and matured.

The activities in the book reflect this broader view of Newton’s life, only touching on the physics experiments briefly. The demonstrations of Newton’s Three Laws of Motion are standard fare: pulling a card out from under a coin (similar to the tablecloth trick, but less dramatic), powering a model boat by letting the air out of a balloon. Other activities illustrate Galileo’s pendulum findings and show you how to get the same effect as a prism with a mirror and a pan of water.  There’s even a version of the crystal garden chemistry project I featured on GeekDad a while back (although the book’s grows much slower than mine). But some of the projects — make a candle clock, bake an apple pie — don’t really have much to do with physics or with Newton himself.
Still, if learning about society during Newton’s time interests you as much as the man’s scientific discoveries, Isaac Newton and Physics for Kids is a worthy addition to the Chicago Review Press “For Kids” series.

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A Shortcut to Mushrooms: Lightning Makes Mushrooms Multiply

Wednesday, April 14th, 2010
Photo by Koichi Takaki

Photo by Koichi Takaki

Based on a hunch from Japanese folklore, a group of scientists has been studying the effects of lightning on mushroom growth. No, this is not a headline out of Middle Earth (but it sure did capture my attention… mmm… mushrooms). While research of this kind might be a bit of a head scratcher for some, National Geographic reports that mushroom demand in Japan has spiked so high they’ve had to rely on foreign sources for their fungal fix. But harnessing lightning just might be the key to a more fruitful harvest. From the article:

The latest results show that lightning-strength jolts of electricity can more than double the yield of certain mushroom species compared with conventional cultivation methods.

“We have tried these experiments with ten types of mushroom so far and have found that it is effective in eight species,” said Koichi Takaki, an associate professor in engineering at Iwate University.

One of the things I want to do this summer is learn to identify mushrooms, culinary and poisonous alike. And upon reading this, I wondered if there was any way to test it out in the field. I think a great experiment with my son would be venturing out into the woods after a thunderstorm and seeing if we can spot any trees stricken by lightning; if so, we could see if it encourages any natural mushroom growth in the ensuing weeks. Ah! Science in your back yard.

(via National Geographic)

What’s Cooking Dad?

Sunday, January 17th, 2010

This article written by Contributing Writer Tom Bowns.

One of the best things you can do for your kids is to bring them into the kitchen with you when you’re cooking. The younger the better; it’s never too early to get them interested in cooking.

While it may seem like more work to have your kids helping to prepare a meal, and it often is – particularly when they’re little – in the end you’ll benefit from having a helper, someone who will be self-sufficient, and who might even cook dinner for you once in awhile.

Having kids help with cooking gives them something to do. It allows them to imitate mom or dad.  It provides bonding time, and it teaches them numerous skills that they will be able to draw from their entire life.

One of the best things they’ll learn is how to prepare food at home. This will help them appreciate fresh ingredients and develop a sense of nutritional content. The more they can cook at home, the less likely they’ll be getting take-out or junk food somewhere else. They’ll be in control of their diet and what goes into their bodies.

Obviously they can’t do much when they’re very young. But even a baby can sit nearby and watch, and play with small pots and spoons and measuring cups designated for baby play.

When they’re able to stand close by on a step stool they can be taught how to carefully pour water from measuring cups into a mixing bowl and how to stir. They can take turns hitting the top of a chopper or pressing on a salad spinner.

When my kids were three and four, I’d have them help decorate cookies, knead bread dough and peel oranges. When making pancakes, they could pour the ingredients and do the stirring, and for dinner they could set the table and arrange vegetables on a tray. Anything that doesn’t involve boiling water, sharp instruments or a hot stove is fair game for the little ones. My five-year-old loves to help me sift flour, run the hand mixer and put baking trays in the oven. He also knows how to properly wash vegetables like broccoli, asparagus and peppers. Getting him used to these vegetables increases his interest in them, which is why he doesn’t shy away from eating them at dinner time.

As they get older, they can graduate to things like cracking eggs, measuring ingredients and even making simple sauces over low heat with supervision. All that’s required there is measuring, stirring, and patience.

By the time they’re twelve they should be able to learn basic kitchen knife skills, such as chopping, peeling and dicing (again, with supervision). They can be taught cooking techniques, such as sweating vegetables, braising meats, making dough and boiling pasta. My thirteen-year-old daughter is my official sous chef. When I announce that I’m going to make dinner, she jumps into the kitchen, dons her apron, washes her hands and asks what we’re making and how she can help. I assign her the tasks that are on par with her learning, while I show her some of the more advanced things I’m doing, and why each step is important. She’s successfully made chocolate chip cookies, ratatouille and most recently smoked Salmon sushi. I know that when she’s out on her own, she’s going to be an excellent cook because she’s learned to love cooking.

Kids love to do what their parents are doing, and from a very early age want to help. You can take advantage of that love by bringing them into the kitchen to help. It may require a little more effort on your part, and maybe a lot more cleanup, but in the end you’ll both be glad you did.

So, when your kids ask, “What’s cooking Dad?”  You can say, “I’m glad you asked.  I could use some help!”

Tom Bowns is a Contributing Writer for Discovering Dad. His personal site is Being Michael’s Daddy. You can also follow Tom on Twitter @michaelsdaddy.

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Favorite Summer Pictures

Saturday, August 22nd, 2009

Summer is my absolute favorite time of year.  I love the heat and sunshine – it always puts me in a good mood.  I even like the humidity, which my wife thinks is crazy!  I like doing things outside, especially with the kids.  Going to the park, playing ball and watching my son drench himself with the hose while “helping” wash the car.

The other thing I love about the summer is family vacations.  This year, we were fortunate enough to go to the beach (the “shore”) and to Disney World.  We went to the beach with my parents and nephew, and we went to Disney with my inlaws.  Both trips were fantastic, so I wanted to share some of my favorite pictures.

Nothing like starting the first day of vacation with a little PILE ON!:

kids pile on_OC June 09

Here’s Hans and Franz getting ready for the beach:

buff bros_OC June 09

Here they are trying to pump (*clap*) me up:

flexing at beach_OC June 09

After a few hours at the beach, it’s always fun to take a ride on a Pirate Ship:

j lori and kids pirate ship_OC June 09

The kids enjoyed hunting crabs with Nana:

Nana and Kids hunting crabs

Pop is really good at making me smile:

Pop and Cat spongebob hat_OC June 09

Nighttime at the beach is fun too, especially at the carnival:

Nate and Ty coaster arms up_OC June 09

Chani even talked Lori into riding the Himalaya:

Lori and Chani himalaya_OC June 09

It was great to get away and spend time with family at the Shore:

Jeremy and Lori carnival_OC June 09

A few weeks later, we headed down to Disney World:

Biser Family at Polynesian lobby Disney 09

We saw Mickey and Minnie:

Biser Family with Minnie and Mickey Disney 09

And, we ran into Tigger too!:

Biser Family with Tigger Disney 09

Grammy and Pop Pop always make things a big (fun) Hoopty Doo!:

laughing Hoopty Doo Disney 09

And, we got to celebrate a birthday too – Happy Birthday Grammy!:

Bren Birthday group shot Disney 09

We almost lost Chani in a rogue rocket accident:

strapped to rocket Disney 09

Fortunately, we made friends with someone at Star Command who brought us back together:

Buzz and Biser Family Disney 09

To make sure no one got lost, Lori decided to dress all of the girls alike:

Lori Cat Chani matching shirts Disney 09

Meanwhile, me and Ty got roped into some monkey business:

Jeremy Ty and Rafiki Disney 09

All-in-all, it was a Magical adventure enjoyed by all:

Family shot Mickeys Hat Disney 09

School starts next week, which means fall is right around the corner.  Our family had a great time this summer, and I hope yours did too!  Please read below for how you can share your favorite summer photos.

If you have a blog, feel free to write a similar post about your summer adventures.  Share your favorite summer pictures too.  Link back to this post, so me and all of the readers of Discovering Dad can share in the fun.  I’m already looking for ideas of fun family things to do for next summer!

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